This post has been in the making for a while. Timing was key and it hasn’t been time to put it out there, until now.
When we lump all of non-monogamy together we make it harder to understand how each different relationship structure functions. While everyone under the umbrella of “non-monogamy” might agree that monogamy isn’t the only way, how exactly we interact with others outside the bounds of monogamy varies from person to person and relationship to relationship.
the ay we survive and the best advice I can give is simple: love first.
When it comes to talking about polyamory and commitment, we’re designing our forever.
Life has changed us, but our love remains constant. That’s what I mean when I say we are high school sweethearts.
We’re all moved in! And we’re all super excited about it. I’ve been thinking though, of what I might share about this process. What have we learned and what has made moving in as a pod different from when I moved in with Ben… Continue Reading “New Relationships, New Boundaries”
The very first question I get when I reveal to people that my husband and I are dating another married couple is….”How on earth does something like that develop!?” It’s a fair question, I mean when you’re married you aren’t exactly supposed to be… Continue Reading “Accidentally Polyamorous”